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My mom was diagnosed with breast
cancer on oct 23, 2008.
I remember it was around noon when
the doctor came into our consultation
room and shook his head slightly and hit
us with the worst news that he could that
say.
"It is, in fact, cancer."
My grandmother sitting beside me acted
as though she had been slapped across
the face.
i had no idea what to say,
i just kind of sat there and hoped he
would be like,,
"pssh, im bullcrapping you. shes in
recovery and she'll be fine! you know
what, that was a mean joke, so i guess
ill tack 20 extra years on her life."
But that didn't happen.
"because she is so young (33), we're
probably going to take the whole breast
and even then, still may do chemo."
Chemotherapy. A cocktail of toxins
designed to kill cancer.. and everything
else in its path.
"there will be days when she cant even
lift her head off of her pillow." he said.
That's lovely. Then i thought of my two
sisters and how they will react.
eventually, we make it out of that
horrible room and back into my moms
orginal room. they rolled her in and my
red eyes gave it away.
"Why are you crying??" she asked
sleepily.
"It's cancer, baby." my grandma stated
softly.
She didn't really cry, and she didn't
really act suprised either. All she did
was mumble,
"I have too much to live for. I refuse to
die."
That's why my mom's my hero. Shes an
amazing AMAZING woman. Despite the
fact that she will lose her breast, and we
can't afford the reconstruction. Depite
the fact she may lose her hair. Despite
the fact that she'll drop weight like crazy.
"Well, if i lose a boob, i'll just get the set
i always wanted and stuff. If my hair
falls out, i've already got my wig picked
out and i think I'll wear it well. If i lose
weight? Well, hell yes!! I'll look fine once
its over, won't i? ...and if i don't make
it; I will die trying."
It's amazing how someone can look at
something the way my mother does.
Purely AMAZING. |
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Reply By: Ayron |
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Your Mom does sound amazing-a good sense
of humor can be the best medicine |
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Reply By: Kaitlyn |
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Wow!!!! Ur mom sounds amazing she
would be my hero if I were u too!!! Ill be
praying like crazy for her recovery
because a woman like that should live!!!!
I think her and my mom would be good
friends! |
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Reply By: abracadabra |
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that sound amazing y'all will be in my
prayers : D |
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Sydney, 19
Though cancer has its negative effects, in the long run it has been a blessing in regards to the way I live my daily life. I know that each day is a gift to be celebrated and I thank God for opening my eyes to all that is beautiful and good in this world.
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