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	Sister Just Died Of Cancer Post By: Rondy
	Message:	I have never delt with this before. My brother's wife who was so positive up to the last minute of her life died last night september 5th, 2008. This was the love of my brothers life. I know that I need to be there for him, and I am trying to be so strong for him and their two sons but I don't know how. I will miss her smile and her fight against the cancer she told me that it was not going to get her, but guess what, it did. She fought up to the end. I know that I need to be strong and I will try with everything inside. How do you deal with it? She was so young and tried to hang on for her two boys but it took over her body and now she is gone. I pray that someday they will find a cure for cancer but how much is enough. We all are losing someone that we love and we all who are reading this are touched by cancer by a family member or a dear friend. She was so positive and greatful of each day that she lived. I am going to miss her along with her family and my brother. She told him two weeks before she died that he needed to get used to not sleeping with her when she had to sleep in a hospital bed in their living room. He was so upset, but she was right. I told her that he would never get used to her being gone. She understood that. When she died last night they came and took her body away and my brother turned to go into their house and when he opened the door and steped inside, listening to the hospice van pulling away, he broke down realizing that he just lost the love of his life. Best wishes to those who are trying to heal from the loss of a loved one.