hey!  First off, cool it. My dad, a year 

ago, got diagnosed with pancreatic 

cancer. But this year, on the exact day 

he was diagnosed last year, the doctor 

called and said that the cancer had 

spread to his intestines and there's 

NOTHING they can do. So I'm trying to 

cope with school, coming home to a bad 

situation, and just trying NOT to kill 

something. But you can't let your dad 

see you angry. He might take it the 

wrong way or something. My dad was 

my family's rock, but he can't even 

barely get up off the couch sometimes 

now. It's horrible. I'm coming home, 

hoping that I don't have to call 911 

AGAIN. I'm as bad off as you, but that 

only means we UNDERSTAND what it's 

doing to our dads. The doctor has only 

given my dad 6 months to live. My 

brothers are in the air force, but they 

got emergency leave to come see him. 

Everyone's acting like he's already 

gone. It's not fair, I know. But we have 

to cope with whatever God decides to 

do. I hope you will get threw this better 

than me. My email's limey3@ymail.com .

Good luck and may God bless you and 

your dad.

limey i am in the same situation my dad has 

colon cancer and they said theres nothing else 

they can do.. they suggested if my dad wanted 

to they could  continue chemo but they don't 

think it would do much. My mom already did his 

will and is now talking about the funeral services 

and moving to a town house...MY DADS NOT 

DEAD YET!! why are they starting this already i 

tell them to take it day by day my dads still here 

and we should enjoy it right? but when i come 

home every day it feels like a funeral..i 

remember my dad as a rock the man of the 

house and iv seen him shrink and get weaker 

each day now he's like a vegetable and its so 

hard to watch him and focus in school..i also 

hate how people say they hate there lives 

because everyone hates them for being a slut 

when in reality it doesn't matter... i would say a 

plus side to cancer is i now truly appreciate life 

and will never ever say i hate my life because 

you don't know what you have till its gone..even 

though i'm loosing my dad i'm still grateful i had 

a wonderful father like him 



i felt like i was the only one going through with 

this but i feel so much better reading these 

messages knowing i'm not alone. 



please give me advice on how you guys cope 

with these situation and any inspiration quotes 

or music you have let me know please. 





also watch a movie called "the secret" it has 

helped me so much its about the law of 

attraction it has made me a very positive person 

you guys should check it out!!