This section was designed by teens in collaboration with licensed social workers,
psychologists, and counselors. We hope to help you identify the feelings you may be
experiencing, let you know that you are not alone, and to give you positive ways to cope.
We realize that not all suggestions will be helpful to each individual,
but we are confident that you will find something that can help you
with where you are at right now.
      
| Lone • ly (adj). 1.a. Without companions; lone. b. Characterized by aloneness;
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Living with a loved one with cancer can cause feelings of isolation. Often
increased demands on household schedules can limit special times you spend
with friends and family. In some cases you may find that your own schedule
of activities has to be adjusted. Do your best to make and keep plans to
spend time with the people who matter most to you.
Some of your friends may feel like they don't know what to say to you. You
may feel like they can't possibly understand what you are going through.
Give them some help. Tell your friends what is and isn't helpful. They may
not be able to treat you as you've asked, but at least you tried.
Spend some time thinking of others in your life who can support you.
Consider aunts and uncles, grandparents, teachers/counselors,
coaches/troop leaders, school nurses, social workers, pastors, ministers,
priests, rabbis and chaplains. There are support groups and web sites (like
CancerReallySucks.org) that you can join where you can share your feelings
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*Don’t expect others to read your mind; share your feelings
*Recognize the importance of communication
*Connect with other teens in your community |
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Kendall, 18
My uncle was diagnosed with multiple myeloma three years ago. My mom spent a lot of time traveling back and forth to Chicago, where my uncle lives. I felt guilty wishing she were at home with me when my uncle needed her more.
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This is a Gems of Hope Inc. program designed and developed by teenagers.
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