This section was designed by teens in collaboration with licensed social workers,
psychologists, and counselors. We hope to help you identify the feelings you may be
experiencing, let you know that you are not alone, and to give you positive ways to cope.
We realize that not all suggestions will be helpful to each individual,
but we are confident that you will find something that can help you
with where you are at right now.
     
| Con • fused (adj.) 1. Being unable to think with clarity or act with understanding and
intelligence. 2.a. Lacking logical order or sense. b. Chaotic; jumbled. |
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Cancer has a way of rocking your world. Get your bearings. You may need
some information. There are hundreds of kinds of cancers and many
different treatments. Surfing the internet may or may not be helpful. Your
family member or loved one knows the most about their cancer. If you have
specific questions, write them down and then ask for a time to discuss them.
If your loved one isn't able to answer your questions or ready to talk
consider one of the following resources:
*National Cancer Institute |
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*Don't let your mind race too far into the future; think about things in terms
of one day at a
time
*Communicate with the adults in your life and don't be afraid to ask
questions- there are no
stupid questions
*Prayer and meditation can be great strategies for dealing with confusion |
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Sydney, 19
Though cancer has its negative effects, in the long run it has been a blessing in regards to the way I live my daily life. I know that each day is a gift to be celebrated and I thank God for opening my eyes to all that is beautiful and good in this world.
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This is a Gems of Hope Inc. program designed and developed by teenagers.
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